From Danielle

Dear Mo,

It's been such an honor to follow along on your journey to bring Magpie home.  Since long before the (now long-ago) day when I met you in person, through all the times I kept running into you in unexpected places, and through all the challenges and bumps in this long road, I have been cheering you on.  I am so happy to be taking part in this virtual celebration of YOU- and Will and Magpie, too, of course.   In case you don't know it, you are a total rock star and I am proud to have known you in some small way on this trip to mommyhood.

A couple of things to share, from one overachiever to another:

1.  When you're used to moving from one goal to the next, the early stages of parenting can be a bit of a shock.  It took me a while to realize that I had to toss the to-do list out the window.  The laundry may not get put away.  The paper you didn't get to finish isn't going to get finished right away.  The baby book may not get filled out with every coo and giggle.  It's fine.  It's more than fine.  While you're not DOING, you're BEING.  And that' can be pretty extraordinary.

2.  In those first few weeks, getting out of the house can be a major accomplishment.  Constant feedings, diaper changes, and the (hopefully occasional) quick change after a spit up can make the lobby of your building feel as far away as the summit of Mt. Everest. That said, do it.  With Will, without Will, with Magpie, without Magpie for long enough to walk around the block if Will is home.  Nothing like a little fresh air and a change of scenery to combat the cabin fever.

3.  (You've probably already got this one covered).  Test out all the gear before you try to use it with Magpie in tow.  Never underestimate the effects of sleep deprivation on your ability to figure out how to use a car seat, a stroller, or the 5-point harness on a bouncy seat.  (The Fisher Price one is a lifesaver and not too pricey, by the way.)

4.  Don't draw any conclusions in the first 6 weeks.  None.  It all gets easier.  Sleeping, feeding (however you do it), bathing. All of it.  And just when you think you can't take another night of interrupted sleep the social smile kicks in and you live to burp another day.

But mostly, please know that there is a whole world of people out there so ready and excited to welcome your new little one with love.  Wishing you and will a lifetime of wonder as you rediscover the world through Magpie's eyes.  I am grinning from ear to ear at the thought that the next time life lands us in the same place at the same time, you just might be there with your daughter.  Whoop!!!!!